Hot or Not: Organized Tupperware, Consensual Photos of Strangers, Puppy Love etc.
This post is dedicated to minimizing the crumbs in our lives. Crumbs, much like the fallen ash of a cigarette, must be swept up and discarded immediately. Though their existence is inevitable, that...
…doesn’t stop them from being any less of a nuisance.
Crumbs are important because they’re the building blocks of life’s cookie. Sometimes, they fall onto a clean surface and you still feel comfortable enough to eat them, and other times they find their way into tough-to-reach spots. Sometimes you wonder how long they’ve been there and other times where they even came from.
Lately the crumbles of my life’s cookie have been made up of old people, places, and even things. I’ve been making an active effort to separate myself from them as a fun way to exercise control over my own life— and I love exercising control over my own life.
By now we all know that ya girl has been a little behind in terms of these weekly Hot or Not listicles. I have no excuse. Truth is, it’s still the summertime baby. And enjoyment has been top of mind around these parts.
I remember hearing somewhere that a big chunk of writing isn’t actually even writing. It’s living. And if that logic is true then, actually, I’ve been doing a ton of writing. ;)
Despite not posting I really have been keeping score.
Here's two months worth of what’s been in and out of my own life. Take what you want, leave what you don't. Bisousssssssssssss - Ada
IN ٩(^◡^)۶
Consensual photos of strangers
Music without words
Women tricking on women
Cooking at home
Red lipstick
Spinach
Donating to mutual aid requests
Estate sales
Professional laundry service
Stretching for an hour
De-centering men
Trying exotic fruit
Carrying cash
Showing excitement
Accessorizing
Handmade gifts
Organized Tupperware
Cordless vacuum in car
Unique dinnerware
Setting my sunscreen with setting spray
Happy-to-be-alone time
OUT (⇀‸↼‶)⊃━☆゚.*・。゚
Puppy love (only interested in lovers that would die for me)
Yes men
Avoiding failure
Buying anything without reading reviews
Staying at the function past midnight
Paying for parties, period
Entertaining others’ self-pity
Doing the least
Going out with people who insist on “only paying for what they ordered” 🤢
Dating (publicly)
Limiting beliefs
Caption-less posting
Co-dependency
Caring about being perceived as physically attractive (the less I have cared = the more ppl have been complimenting me..go figure lol)
Wigs as main hairstyle
Spending more time with others than by myself
~ fin ~
If you’ve made it this far thank you & come again 🤓
I can’t guarantee when the next one will be but hey, the only constant is change.